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Authenticity in communication and prayer. The second core value I wanted to mention is Authenticity. Now at first that seems rather obvious. Doesn't everybody want to be authentic? I mean who really says, "I actually think duplicity works better."? But, like simplicity, it's easier said than done. I think authenticity means not shooting for more than you are. A lot of times, in an effort to keep up with what we think is expected of us as Christians, we are tempted to profess more than we possess. More knowledge than we actually have (who wants to admit you don't really know what you should know?) More intimacy with Christ than we actually have (who wants to talk about a dead or dying prayer life?) More integrity than we actually have (who wants to think about how we might frame a certain situation to make ourselves look a little better?). More outreach than we actually do (who wants to admit we haven't really reached out for a long, long time?) So when we parrot words about ourselves and our spirituality that don't ring true (to ourselves, to our consciences), there's a sense where we stop believing ourselves. The words and the worship become "mere" words because deep inside we know they don't actually reflect reality very well. So authenticity means starting where we are, and starting to own what we actually are, even if the product isn't very exciting. At least then, even though we might say less, we'll believe what we do say, and it feels right when it comes out. It feels truthful. That sense of truthfulness is what produces conviction, credibility with others, and the ability to look people in the eye. So let's go easy on each other. Or as some have said, "I move we accept reality." Let's start with where we are, and offer ourselves the same grace as Christ has offered us. That means there's no threat to admitting the truth. No fear of failure or rejection. No drive to impress others or keep up with them. It means freedom to say, "I'm not very good at that." Or "I've never been able to..." Or "I don't think I understand how..." That's authenticity. It's not the way of our culture. But it's the truth.
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